Have you ever counted minutes, seconds waiting in the doctor’s office or any anteroom, wishing that the wait gets over soon? Nobody likes waiting. It strips away the power of action and execution. It forces us to just do nothing which makes us more restless than ever.
The most common thing to establish your control back is to pull out your phone and doom scroll through life. But that’s probably not the healthiest thing to do. You might feel that you’re back in control for a fraction of a second, but doom scrolling itself is a causal effect of boredom that induces more of it. So, sooner or later, you’ll get tired of it also.
Therefore, to assuage the pain of seemingly interminable tedium, we have gathered some of the most effective and insightful activities to make the process of thinking-waiting-wishing more interesting than ever. But before we begin with the litany of activities that you can do, let’s focus more on the reasons why waiting is so painful than pain first.
As mentioned previously, waiting strips us off from control and makes us more restless than ever. When there is nothing to do, we are left with ourselves and our thoughts which are left unorganized and whirl inside our minds like a tornado. This catalyzes into overthinking and before we know it, we instinctively pull out our phones and doom scroll our way through life like always.
One of the best solutions to this problem is to stop searching for activities to do outside but inside yourself. Don’t rely on external stimuli, instead look within and you’ll never be bored for the rest of your life. This process is called deliberate thinking, where you reflect, contemplate and analyze yourself, based upon your thoughts, your actions, and your perceptions.
Now, you might say that it’s easier said than done because what is there to think about? ‘I lie here thinking waiting, but what exactly should I think about? – will be your first thought as you read this. You’re right on your part. You might even, in an attempt to understand and try, read the instructions or contemplate the painting on the wall of the anteroom, the next time you have to wait. But for how long will you be able to do that?
To help you with this conundrum, we have selected some deeply insightful and reflective thoughts that you can deliberately think about to make your mind sharper and soul richer.
This is one sort of fast-thinking that you can do for yourself while waiting in a room. In the digital age, these questions might sound weird, even funny to some. Some might think, why should I waste my time on these stupid questions when I have my phone?
Well, if you think like that, then you’re probably wasting your time on your phone, as reflective thinking is an essential part of life and no matter what you do, at some point, you’ll have to resort to that someday.
One way to make waiting more enduring is to accept the fact that it is unavoidable. Instead of perceiving it as something intolerable, view it as fair and normal. You’re not alone. Other people are also waiting with you and even they’re experiencing the seemingly interminable boredom you’re experiencing. If you want, then you can make it interesting for you and them by striking a conversation with a person sitting beside you. This is one way to make your wait more interesting apart from these questions.
These questions will surely make your waiting more interesting and the plus point is, it will help you know yourself more than ever. You will not experience the feeling of restlessness as you normally would in an anteroom. Instead, once you begin asking yourself these uncomfortable yet insightful questions, you’ll go deeper and deeper into it.
You might probably be using your phone every day and maybe it is for all the right and productive reasons. So, take some time off it and enjoy yourself. At the end of the day, you have to sleep by yourself. You need to know that better!
Also Read: 5 Healthy Habits To Lead The Productive Life
Have you ever counted minutes, seconds waiting in the doctor’s office or any anteroom, wishing that the wait gets over soon? Nobody likes waiting. It strips away the power of action and execution. It forces us to just do nothing which makes us more restless than ever.
The most common thing to establish your control back is to pull out your phone and doom scroll through life. But that’s probably not the healthiest thing to do. You might feel that you’re back in control for a fraction of a second, but doom scrolling itself is a causal effect of boredom that induces more of it. So, sooner or later, you’ll get tired of it also.
Therefore, to assuage the pain of seemingly interminable tedium, we have gathered some of the most effective and insightful activities to make the process of thinking-waiting-wishing more interesting than ever. But before we begin with the litany of activities that you can do, let’s focus more on the reasons why waiting is so painful than pain first.
As mentioned previously, waiting strips us off from control and makes us more restless than ever. When there is nothing to do, we are left with ourselves and our thoughts which are left unorganized and whirl inside our minds like a tornado. This catalyzes into overthinking and before we know it, we instinctively pull out our phones and doom scroll our way through life like always.
One of the best solutions to this problem is to stop searching for activities to do outside but inside yourself. Don’t rely on external stimuli, instead look within and you’ll never be bored for the rest of your life. This process is called deliberate thinking, where you reflect, contemplate and analyze yourself, based upon your thoughts, your actions, and your perceptions.
Now, you might say that it’s easier said than done because what is there to think about? ‘I lie here thinking waiting, but what exactly should I think about? – will be your first thought as you read this. You’re right on your part. You might even, in an attempt to understand and try, read the instructions or contemplate the painting on the wall of the anteroom, the next time you have to wait. But for how long will you be able to do that?
To help you with this conundrum, we have selected some deeply insightful and reflective thoughts that you can deliberately think about to make your mind sharper and soul richer.
This is one sort of fast-thinking that you can do for yourself while waiting in a room. In the digital age, these questions might sound weird, even funny to some. Some might think, why should I waste my time on these stupid questions when I have my phone?
Well, if you think like that, then you’re probably wasting your time on your phone, as reflective thinking is an essential part of life and no matter what you do, at some point, you’ll have to resort to that someday.
One way to make waiting more enduring is to accept the fact that it is unavoidable. Instead of perceiving it as something intolerable, view it as fair and normal. You’re not alone. Other people are also waiting with you and even they’re experiencing the seemingly interminable boredom you’re experiencing. If you want, then you can make it interesting for you and them by striking a conversation with a person sitting beside you. This is one way to make your wait more interesting apart from these questions.
These questions will surely make your waiting more interesting and the plus point is, it will help you know yourself more than ever. You will not experience the feeling of restlessness as you normally would in an anteroom. Instead, once you begin asking yourself these uncomfortable yet insightful questions, you’ll go deeper and deeper into it.
You might probably be using your phone every day and maybe it is for all the right and productive reasons. So, take some time off it and enjoy yourself. At the end of the day, you have to sleep by yourself. You need to know that better!
Also Read: 5 Healthy Habits To Lead The Productive Life