There’s an undeniable reason why the timeless cowgirl (also, the girl on top) is one of men’s all-time favourite sex positions! And, it’s not just because the view from below is stunning.

If you say that you don’t like the classic cowgirl, a.k.a, the girl on top sex position that you’re lying to yourself and the world. There is no shame in admitting that you like to be controlled once in a while (or, always). 

When the girl is on top, she has full control of her body and your body. She can tease you, drive you mad, or even make you last longer. Once in a while, it’s good to let go and let your girl do the hot and heavy work. Girls reach orgasms quicker with the girl on top sex position as they can control how hard you hit their vulva and clitoris. Therefore, it’s a win-win situation for everyone involved!  

More on the girl on top sex position!

Even though this a timeless classic and everyone’s favourite, it can still get stale if you overdo it or don’t switch it up once in a while. Too much of anything isn’t good, right? 

We get it. Your job is much easier and almost done when your partner decides to get on top and ride you. But, that doesn’t mean your job’s over. You can’t just sit back and relax. If you want to do it right, you have to do something. Even if it is just thrusting, kissing her thighs, playing with her breasts, or stimulating her clitoris. Ask her what she wants. Do everything to please her. 

Sometimes tweaking up the class girl on top sex position and performing variations can be earth-shattering and bring you the most amazing orgasms. 

Girl On Top
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Tips and Hacks to spice up the girl on top sex position!

Here are some hot tips for mastering the girl on top position! 

1.Foreplay

Trust us on this one. Women need foreplay. It doesn’t matter if you’re on top or if the woman is. They still need foreplay. So, go for it. Kiss her, caress her breasts, suck on them, spank her if she’s into it, kiss her thighs, go down on her! If you’re lucky, she’ll return the favour and go down on you. And, everyone knows how that one feels. 

When she’s satisfied with the foreplay and you’re hard enough, let her climb on top of you and ask her to straddle your member with her legs on either side. Nothing will get you going like some straddling. Let her tease you. It’ll be fun.

2.Preparing for entry

When you’re charged up enough and your erection is begging for more, let her grab your penis, support herself while catching hold of the back of the bed, lower herself and enter her quickly yet swiftly. If she complains of pain, lower her and ask her if she’s fine. Do not go ahead if she’s uncomfortable.

3.Continue rocking

Once you’re in, let the fun begin. Ask her to keep on rocking, to go in the directions both of you like. Explore her body completely with your penis. Build some steam, tell her to go slowly move up and down, or she can rock her hips in circles. Whatever both of you are comfortable with. You can help her ride you by grabbing her hips and guiding her the way you like it. Going in circles is usually fun. 

4.Freeplay

Freeplay is different from foreplay. Freeplay is the one that happens during sex. Women always need a little something more than just thrusting. And, when she’s on top, your hands are free. So, make use of it! Grab her breasts, squeeze her buttocks, draw circles on her hips, stimulate her inner thighs. And, if you want to make it more fun, tease her. Play with her nipples, gently stimulate her clitoris. Keep her begging for more and you’ll be the master of sex! 

5.Adjusting

Don’t move too forcefully, it’ll be painful. Ask her to go hard but to be gentle as well. If she grinds too hard, you can bend uncomfortably. Ask her to pop out of the position once in a while and then to continue grinding hard. 

6.Keep on practicing!

Yes. Whoever said “practice makes a man perfect” knew what he was talking about. Nobody can be a master of sex without practising. Just like any position, the girl on top position needs practice too! Once you both get the hang of the girl on top, there will be no looking back!

The best girl on top sex positions

You’ve already learned a lot about what to do and how to do when you’re trying out the girl on top! Now, it’s time to explore those positions for earth-shattering orgasms. Here are the three best girl on top sex positions.

1.The Face-Sit

This is a great girl on top oral sex position. If your girl gives you the best blowjobs, it’s time to reward her. Lay flat on your back on the bed with a pillow under your head. Now, let your girl sit on top of your face and straddle gently. If there’s a headboard that she can hold on to, it’ll be great for support. When her vagina is just hovering over your months, start sliding in your tongue gently. And, perform oral sex the way she likes it!

2.The Sideways Saddle

This girl on top sex position can be a little tricky but once you get the hang of it, it’ll work wonders for your sex life. Lie flat on your body with your knees bent and feet flat. Now, ask your girl to straddle one of your legs. She should be facing your thigh and turned away from your head. Her legs should be on either side of your leg. Now, let her grind up against your thigh as she rocks back and forth or side to side.

3. The champagne room

This is hands down the best girl on top sex position. It works for both anal and vaginal sex, can you believe it? The Champagne Room gives the girl insane control and allow her to regulate how fast, hot and intense she wants the sex. For this girl on top position, sit on the edge of the bed or a chair (whichever is more comfortable) and let your girl sit on top of you.

Slide in your erection inside her vagina or anus and let her straddle you. Both your hands are free to roam in this position so take full advantage of that. Play with her breasts, anus or clitoris. She can switch up the motion with a quick handjob in the middle of the position by popping your penis out and giving it a tight up and down motion. It will work wonders. You’ll be screaming by the end of it. This will send you over the moon!

Remember, that after-sex is important too. Be it light kissing or pillow talk. Communicating after sex is a must. It helps to keep the relationship healthy!

And, no matter what you and your girl decide to do with the classic girl on top, remember to be gentle with each other and have fun!