Who’s an attractive man? He's an interesting man, not necessarily handsome or fit. Beauty and good looks are important agents of attraction for most men and women, but the factors of attractiveness, magnetism and seduction go far beyond good genetics. Just think and you will remember countless men who are attractive not for their beauty but for their posture, elegance, self-confidence, politeness, friendliness, and empathy.
The starting point for becoming a more attractive man is simply to try to be the best version of yourself. That better-dressed, well-groomed, confident, polite, respectful, intelligent version of yours.
Being attractive—that is, interesting—man opens doors not just in dating or sex, but in all areas of life, work, and relationships. So it pays to build brick by brick a better image of yourself.
Check out the points below to work on yourself to increase your ability to attract, to attract attention, to delight those around you — whether men or women. Many are visual-related, but not all are simply related to physical appearance.
Hair is probably the first thing people notice about a man. A nice haircut is the one that suits you. It doesn't matter the style—short, long, curly, fade, undercut, whatever. What is not possible is to wear disheveled, blunt hair, which has not seen scissors for months.
It's no use idealizing a cut that doesn't fit your hair type or face shape. Take into account the characteristics of your hair: density (number of strands), volume (thickness of the strands), shape (straight, straight, curly, curly) and whether it is dry, normal or oily. All these characteristics influence the final cut result. If you have questions about your hair type or a cut style that suits it, ask your barber or hairdresser for their opinion.
Think of a singer who will perform at a concert for a large audience. He will never go on stage wearing just any outfit. On the contrary, you will choose pieces that reflect your personality and your musical style. The same thing happens when we choose our clothes.
Nobody needs to wear expensive clothes to be more attractive. All you have to do is know how to combine the pieces, choose the right sizes and colors and models that value your physical type (thin, fit, overweight). Men's fashion today is absolutely versatile and democratic. It doesn't matter if the style you identify with is “Classic”, “Casual”, “Sports”, “Fashion” etc. It is important that your wardrobe matches your lifestyle and personality.
Being in good shape doesn't mean being fit, muscular, or having defined abs. Nor seek at all costs to fit the standards of male beauty. A fit man is attractive because he conveys the image that he feels good in his own body, whether he's skinny, overweight, it doesn't matter.
Do any type of physical exercise at least 3 times a week. Keep a healthy diet, with lots of fruits, vegetables, cereals, and avoid junk food, snacks, sweets, things that only make you fat and do not bring any health benefits.
Those statements about male vanity, saying that men are taking better care of themselves, are so old and worn out, that it's not even worth wasting time introducing the importance of taking care of one's appearance. Few men have yet to realize that well-groomed skin and beard count points at work and on dates.
Check out some basic and fundamental points to make it more attractive.
Being an attractive man is not old-fashioned, out of date—and it never will be. A man who oozes education and respect is always attractive at first sight. Show your respect and consideration to people. Don't skimp on “thank you”, “please”, “sorry”, “excuse me”. Cultivate empathy with others. Do you know what it is? According to the dictionary, empathy is “the ability to identify with the other, feeling what he feels”.
Don't be rude to others or belittle other people's beliefs and opinions, much less in public. Curb the urge to make destructive or nasty comments on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter or YouTube. Fight the tendency to adopt prejudiced, racist, sexist, homophobic and misogynist views, even unintentionally, not even in apparently innocent jokes and pranks.
Here, too, those old rules of respect and kindness to women apply. In any situation—on a first date, at work, on the street, in casual sex—a respectful man is always considered as an attractive man. Chivalry never goes out of style.
A man with low self-esteem conveys an image of insecurity that is unattractive. People can tell at a glance when someone is down, as much from facial expressions as from gestures and body language (for example, the tendency to walk hunched over, as if carrying the weight of the world on your back).
We're always going to lose out in comparison to other men, who are handsome, athletic, successful, and who appear to be happy all the time. Or at least they show up like that on social media, like Instagram. The feeling of not meeting these standards negatively impacts our self-love and causes disinterest, lack of motivation, depression. Try to value your qualities more. You are unique, you don't need to and shouldn't try to reproduce other people's models. Lift your head, straighten your back, openly show yourself to others.
As you can see, putting in the effort to become a more lively and attractive man isn't easy. Everyone would do it if it were simple. You gain a competitive advantage over others who are unwilling to face and push themselves to the extreme. At the end of the day, it's all about putting in the effort, creating a vibrant and fulfilling single life, and then allowing who you are to speak for yourself as you put yourself out into the world.
Also Read: 10 Clothing Items That Make A Man More Attractive
Who’s an attractive man? He's an interesting man, not necessarily handsome or fit. Beauty and good looks are important agents of attraction for most men and women, but the factors of attractiveness, magnetism and seduction go far beyond good genetics. Just think and you will remember countless men who are attractive not for their beauty but for their posture, elegance, self-confidence, politeness, friendliness, and empathy.
The starting point for becoming a more attractive man is simply to try to be the best version of yourself. That better-dressed, well-groomed, confident, polite, respectful, intelligent version of yours.
Being attractive—that is, interesting—man opens doors not just in dating or sex, but in all areas of life, work, and relationships. So it pays to build brick by brick a better image of yourself.
Check out the points below to work on yourself to increase your ability to attract, to attract attention, to delight those around you — whether men or women. Many are visual-related, but not all are simply related to physical appearance.
Hair is probably the first thing people notice about a man. A nice haircut is the one that suits you. It doesn't matter the style—short, long, curly, fade, undercut, whatever. What is not possible is to wear disheveled, blunt hair, which has not seen scissors for months.
It's no use idealizing a cut that doesn't fit your hair type or face shape. Take into account the characteristics of your hair: density (number of strands), volume (thickness of the strands), shape (straight, straight, curly, curly) and whether it is dry, normal or oily. All these characteristics influence the final cut result. If you have questions about your hair type or a cut style that suits it, ask your barber or hairdresser for their opinion.
Think of a singer who will perform at a concert for a large audience. He will never go on stage wearing just any outfit. On the contrary, you will choose pieces that reflect your personality and your musical style. The same thing happens when we choose our clothes.
Nobody needs to wear expensive clothes to be more attractive. All you have to do is know how to combine the pieces, choose the right sizes and colors and models that value your physical type (thin, fit, overweight). Men's fashion today is absolutely versatile and democratic. It doesn't matter if the style you identify with is “Classic”, “Casual”, “Sports”, “Fashion” etc. It is important that your wardrobe matches your lifestyle and personality.
Being in good shape doesn't mean being fit, muscular, or having defined abs. Nor seek at all costs to fit the standards of male beauty. A fit man is attractive because he conveys the image that he feels good in his own body, whether he's skinny, overweight, it doesn't matter.
Do any type of physical exercise at least 3 times a week. Keep a healthy diet, with lots of fruits, vegetables, cereals, and avoid junk food, snacks, sweets, things that only make you fat and do not bring any health benefits.
Those statements about male vanity, saying that men are taking better care of themselves, are so old and worn out, that it's not even worth wasting time introducing the importance of taking care of one's appearance. Few men have yet to realize that well-groomed skin and beard count points at work and on dates.
Check out some basic and fundamental points to make it more attractive.
Being an attractive man is not old-fashioned, out of date—and it never will be. A man who oozes education and respect is always attractive at first sight. Show your respect and consideration to people. Don't skimp on “thank you”, “please”, “sorry”, “excuse me”. Cultivate empathy with others. Do you know what it is? According to the dictionary, empathy is “the ability to identify with the other, feeling what he feels”.
Don't be rude to others or belittle other people's beliefs and opinions, much less in public. Curb the urge to make destructive or nasty comments on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter or YouTube. Fight the tendency to adopt prejudiced, racist, sexist, homophobic and misogynist views, even unintentionally, not even in apparently innocent jokes and pranks.
Here, too, those old rules of respect and kindness to women apply. In any situation—on a first date, at work, on the street, in casual sex—a respectful man is always considered as an attractive man. Chivalry never goes out of style.
A man with low self-esteem conveys an image of insecurity that is unattractive. People can tell at a glance when someone is down, as much from facial expressions as from gestures and body language (for example, the tendency to walk hunched over, as if carrying the weight of the world on your back).
We're always going to lose out in comparison to other men, who are handsome, athletic, successful, and who appear to be happy all the time. Or at least they show up like that on social media, like Instagram. The feeling of not meeting these standards negatively impacts our self-love and causes disinterest, lack of motivation, depression. Try to value your qualities more. You are unique, you don't need to and shouldn't try to reproduce other people's models. Lift your head, straighten your back, openly show yourself to others.
As you can see, putting in the effort to become a more lively and attractive man isn't easy. Everyone would do it if it were simple. You gain a competitive advantage over others who are unwilling to face and push themselves to the extreme. At the end of the day, it's all about putting in the effort, creating a vibrant and fulfilling single life, and then allowing who you are to speak for yourself as you put yourself out into the world.
Also Read: 10 Clothing Items That Make A Man More Attractive